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Grass is always greener on the other side

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Comparing is a dangerous habit. We all compare ourselves with someone else on the grounds of lifestyle, possessions, good looks and many things and often end up being sad for not having all those things. It's human nature everyone must have felt so at some point or the other in their lives. But while comparing ourselves to someone who is more privileged 'according to us', we forget that do we really need all these things? Often you will find the answer as 'No'. When you look at a film star immediately you say what a life.. I wish I was a star! but do you ever think how many sacrifices people do to get that stardom. Are you ready to sacrifice? Are you ready to have control on diet & spend 3 hours in gym toning your body & always worry about what next? how long my career would last? All that glitters is not gold & Getting what you desire is not a piece of cake. Let's think other way round, there are so many people who dreams to live your life bec

Homosexuality is right or wrong?

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Majority of us born as heterosexual means we get attracted to the opposite genders but there are some people in this world who are attracted to the same gender as theirs. Homosexuality is legal now in most of the countries but are they really accepted by the society? In a developing country like India where there are drastic changes in the culture since last 70 years, we have modified out cultural database with higher version of Western culture & running the lives on amalgamated operating system. From cutting cakes on birthday, celebrating achievements with champagne to women wearing jeans & fancy dresses we have changed but when Homosexuality comes in picture our elders bash it while tagging it with "unnecessary westernization". But is it actually coming from the west? In a Marathi folk dance 'Lavni' the performance is incomplete without 'Nachya' a person who is dressed like a man but behaving like a woman. Also you must have seen such character

What's important?

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We often spend so much on high end gadgets, branded clothes and costly accessories. We like to boast about our possessions, discuss the cost with friends and flaunt all those things. Many people also teach their parents about how to improve standard of living and how hard they work to maintain their status in the society. Spending on expensive things and maintaining them makes you so engrossed in yourself that you care for things more than human beings. While checking your expensive bag if a friend drops it then you would harshly say something that may hurt him. If your mom by mistake spill a water around you phone then very next moment you scold her & remind her how expensive that it. But if you fall sick and don't feel like getting up from bed then it's your mom who gonna sit beside you and take care of everything. If you are really sad about something then it's your friend who is gonna console you and cheer you up. Things are gonna go old, rust or torn off but

Happiness

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Happiness is a state of mind. A sudden pleasant event can make us happy, if things are falling into places we feel happy, if plans are working out we become happy but actually we feel the joy of happiness majorly because of two things, sadness & stillness. If your life has become monotonous, an unexpected change makes you grin ear to ear but if you are going through a very bad phase of life then a positive change makes you feel content. If you have never felt the pain you would never experience the feeling of relief. It's all interdependent. So sadness is Antihero of our life who gives us moments of cheers & giggles. Do you agree???

Language

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Over 6000 languages & countless dialects in this world but have you ever thought what was the real perspective of inventing language? It was invented by human beings to communicate, to share & express feelings which is continued till years even now but currently it has multiple branches. Languages differ from every country, every state & sometimes religions & beliefs too.  In today's world language is not mode of communication, it's matter of pride, people have linked it with their egos. Languages are creating differences in people. World is facing communication problem, in some countries it's the reason of communal riots too. We are living in a modern, tech savvy world where everything is available at fingertips but when it comes to communication we struggle to find a common ground. With all this social media the world is getting closer but is it actually true? Doesn't matter how intelligently & rapidly human species evolved, the thought of

Mindsets

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They say money can buy anything & everything perhaps it is true because things are bought but what you cannot buy are feelings, understanding & love. To lead a good life one needs to earn good amount of money & to earn that good you need to sacrifice on various things. One cannot compare a CEO with a worker of an organization. What a drastic difference will there be in the lifestyle, standard of living & mentality. Former would think of an expensive gadget & it will be in his hand the very next day & later may not be even aware of the latest gadgets in the market. But when a CEO leave from office he is all occupied with bundle of thoughts, goals & worries about organization whereas the worker leaves with a satisfaction of completing another day at work & looks forward to spend some quality time with family. It is advised to 'Live Life King Size' but the king's life comes with plethora of responsibilities which we often forget. The more y

Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder...

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Beauty is a subjective term. What I think is beautiful you may not think the same. It depends on one's taste, choice, thoughts & liking. Beauty is not restricted to humans, one may see beauty in animals, places or things as well. But when it comes to humans most of the time our inner selves leads us to racism. We often end up considering fair people more beautiful than dusky people. Especially in India fairness is the most popular category in matrimonial websites. Dusky people often adjust a lot while choosing a life partner. Everyone wants their partner to be of fair skin toned. Everyone wants their children to be of fair skin tone & if they are not then that's the main worry of their parent's life. We need to change our though process about the skin colors. Every person is beautiful regardless of their skin tones because it is not something which the person achieves with hard work, it's god gifted & we should respect the same. Waiting for a day