Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder...


Beauty is a subjective term. What I think is beautiful you may not think the same. It depends on one's taste, choice, thoughts & liking. Beauty is not restricted to humans, one may see beauty in animals, places or things as well.
But when it comes to humans most of the time our inner selves leads us to racism. We often end up considering fair people more beautiful than dusky people. Especially in India fairness is the most popular category in matrimonial websites. Dusky people often adjust a lot while choosing a life partner. Everyone wants their partner to be of fair skin toned. Everyone wants their children to be of fair skin tone & if they are not then that's the main worry of their parent's life.
We need to change our though process about the skin colors. Every person is beautiful regardless of their skin tones because it is not something which the person achieves with hard work, it's god gifted & we should respect the same.
Waiting for a day when parents are not worried about dark skin of their children, people are not afraid to put dusky in their matrimonial page & nobody calls word black as racist remark because black is just a color & we should not drag it into skin color chart. Every person, every animal, every place is beautiful because beauty lies in the eyes of beholder.... 

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